What is mentoring?
Mentoring is a developmental relationship; help by one person to another in making significant transitions in knowledge, work or thinking.
What is a mentee?
A mentee is someone (staff or faculty) at DU who wants to develop his/her knowledge, skills, and/or awareness in a particular area. The mentee is the "driver" of the mentoring relationship.
What is a mentor?
A mentor is someone (staff or faculty) at DU who provides support and helps the mentee to review their situation through a process of reflection, questions, signposting, challenge, advice and feedback. Mentoring is undertaken this way rather than by advice to allow the mentee to come to their own decisions. A mentor is there to help the mentee on their own journey.
How do I know if I need a mentor?
Triggers for getting a mentor can be career development or progression, improvement in personal performance, seeking a new or different role, to nurture and foster talent, where progress has been blocked, to help individuals through a challenging time, when seeking the advice of a mentor who has direct experience within a certain area, or for business growth.
What skills do I need to become a mentor?
Mentors should have a desire to bring about change and a willingness to help others. A mentor should have good active listening skills whilst leaving their own agendas and egos at the door. Additional overall business experience or specialized skills, competencies, industry or field experience is an asset depending on the mentor/mentee match.
How do you become a mentor?
We'd suggest you first read through all the information available here on the website. This should give you a pretty good sense of the program. After reviewing the website, submit an application HERE.
How do I choose a mentor?
It's best to decide what skills or experience you are looking for in a mentor and then consider your own goals when choosing one. A mentor can often be a role model or someone you aspire to be like. Think about their characteristics, can you relate to the mentor and do you respect them? Look at how they communicate; does it suit your style? Do they have experience in a field, industry, or line of work you are interested in?
What if there isn't a mentor on the list that has what you are looking for?
This program is fluid (meaning that new mentors will be added while other mentors will be taken and unavailable while they are mentoring), new and available mentors will be popping up continuously. Keep checking the mentor list and trust that your mentor will show up eventually. Remember, everyone has something to teach and to learn.
How is "coaching" different from "mentoring"?
Coaching is more performance-driven, designed to improve the professional's on-the-job performance with a strong focus on the coachee and helping them find the answers for themselves.
Mentoring is more development-driven, looking not just at the professional's current job function but beyond, taking a more holistic approach to career development with a strong focus on the mentor's experience and insight.
How can I get the most out of a mentoring relationship?
From the beginning establish a working relationship, timescales, expectations, boundaries, and objectives. Be open to feedback, honest, and willing to share relevant information. Be ready to develop new ways of thinking, behaviors, and attitudes. Prepare for the mentoring process, setting goals, priorities, realistic expectations, and always review your progress.
A mentorship is especially productive when the mentor believes in the mentee and if the mentor can learn from the mentee as mentoring is a two-way relationship.
How much time do I need to commit to a mentoring relationship?
A minimum of an hour a month is normally needed. It is up to each individual to agree to the length and time of the relationship. Most first meetings will take longer than subsequent ones.
Agreeing levels of support that works for both parties is essential. It is important to discuss at the start of any mentoring relationship the frequency, duration, by what means the mentoring sessions will take place, and when and where to meet.